Be my forever

August 11, 2015

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"Love isn't what make the world go round. Love is what make the ride worthwhile."

It's okay to stay single for years. Maybe because you haven't found the one. Maybe because you're too afraid to try again. Or, or maybe because you realize that happiness can be achieved even when you're all by yourself. I can understand that. It's okay to reject the one who loves you, just because you don't feel the same way, instead of giving them high hopes. It's okay to fall in love with the wrong person. Because you will never know when this kind of person will come again for the second time in your life. It's okay to stay single than be in the wrong relationship. It's okay to love yourself first before someone else.

Months ago I fell in love with a man. I guess it just didn't work for us, haha. So we called it quit. But we remain friends and I still keep a good relationship with him. A friend of mine told me I was loving the wrong guy. Back then I told myself I never want to be right ever again if what she said was right. I don't even understand with the term of "loving the wrong person". Better yet, how can you tell that person isn't for you?

I have a question that's been lingering in my mind for the past few days; what if you loved the wrong person, but he was all you've ever wanted? What if, even you knew that you can't be together, years from now you wouldn't meet the same man like him twice? What if every time you tried to encounter another man, you would always be reminded with this guy from your past?

What if he were the one but you're not?


  1. I really like your blog! x

  2. Agree. Single isn't a bad thing. People are actually putting off settling down longer now.